Tuesday, September 14, 2010

A FRENCH WEDDING TRADITION


Before the WeddingBrides would take long, fragrant baths on the morning of their weddings. These baths were supposed to purify them for the wedding, and wash away all thoughts of previous lives or loves. The groom in France is very involved in the wedding. After all, French men idolize their women. The man wants to make sure everything is perfect when he joins with her in front of all of his friends and family. On the morning of the wedding, there is none of this "hiding of the bride". The groom shows up at the home of the bride to spend the final house with his new family. He escorts his fiance to the church, while local children bar the way with white ribbons. The bride cuts her way through them, showing her willing intention to go with him. At the church, the groom escorts his own mother down the isle before the bride, again showing his love for both women in his life. The CeremonyFrench are very religious, and are of many religions. Each religion follows its own traditions for the actual ceremony, although all involve many flowers. All also ended with a kiss! Ending the CeremonyLaurels were a symbol of success and victory. The newly married couple would often walk down an aisle of laurels when they had completed their final kiss. The church bells would ring loudly to herald to the world the new couple's entrance. Often seed or bread was thrown over the couple to symbolize wealth and fertility.

A FRENCH BRIDE


The Dress of a French BrideThe French have used long white dresses for hundreds of years. They are very fond of lace but also of emphasizing the beauty and charm of the individual woman wearing the dress. To the French, any woman - young or old, dark or light, freckled or fair, can be truly beautiful on her wedding day. The very complex white dresses can trace to the wife of Napoleon III, the Empress Eugenie. Louix XII married Anne of Brittany in 1499, where she wore a full white dress. The white represents her purity and clean state as she comes to the wedding. The Flowers of FranceThe traditional flowers in a French wedding would be orange blossoms. This comes from a traditional story of a gardener's flower who managed to get some orange blossoms for the French Ambassador to Spain. He was so pleased that he gave her a big dowry, and she was able to marry her true love. She wore orange blossoms to her wedding to show her thanks for a dream come true. Flowers were often used to freshen a sometimes damp and dusty church. The fragrance would also help to drive away evil spirits. Diamonds and FranceKing Charles VII of France gave diamonds to his fiance as a sign of his love. Diamonds have always been a symbol of wealth and eternity, but here they took on a romantic aspect as well - that he was willing to give something everlasting and important to his true love, to show he meant to be with her forever.